One of the 13 Tools

on your Possibilitator's Toolbelt

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.01

You're doing an experiment. We do not recommend this as your way of life. This is to do consciously what you are doing unconsciously.

The next time you are in a confrontational or scary conversation with someone, hold your hands out wide to make yourself the biggest target possible. Listen like a sponge, let anything come in. Are you ready?
Do not try to change anything for at least 45 minutes. Let your Numbness Bar down, and feel the low, medium and high intensity Feelings and Emotions swirling around inside of you as a result of being an Emotional Garbage Can Rescuer Mommy Target.
Apologise to the person you are listening to and say "Thank you for talking to me. I apologise because today is not my day. I'll talk to you later".

Note: Be sure to take a long hot shower before the end of the day to wash away all the crap. And, this experiment could easily rise to occasions for Emotional Healing Processes.

After completing this experiment by asking for apology, please register Matrix Code SPEAKING.12 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.

This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.02

Get a red cloth. Loop it around your belt, tuck it in your pants so it is hanging out, or in a last resort you can tie it around your neck.
Five times, each day, for the next 7 days, instruct your instinct, your intuition, to pull out your red cloth out in front of you before something happens. You know something is going to happen - for example, you are afraid to call somebody or opening a message. Or somebody is coming at you in the office and is going to criticise you, you can feel it.

1. The red cloth does not work as a barrier. It is not a shield.
2. You can not hide behind the red cloth. It is not made to hide behind.
3. The red cloth is not to cut you off from the other person.
4. The red cloth does not change the laws of physics, meaning: with cars coming down the street the red cloth is not going to save you. You need to get out of its way.
5. There is a very big difference between where you hold the red cloth (see next experiment).
6. If somebody asks you why you are pulling out the red cloth, you tell them you are doing an Energetic Tool Experiment from the startover.xyz game. You are learning how to use the red cloth.
7. It is important that the red cloth is immediately available and that you can just pop it out. You can't afford having a big knot on it and then having it get stuck around your neck.

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.03

It turns out that it makes a big difference from which point of origin the cloth emerges. Remember, the actual, physical red cloth is a model of the energetic red cloth. We are using an actual red cloth to use the energetic red cloth.
The red cloth can originate in a point of origin: 'I'm not good enough. I don't know how to do this. You are an asshole. I don't care. You're better than me'. Et cetera.
The red cloth works best when it originates from the point of origin: ´This is a distinction. This is an energetic tool.´
The energetic tools are experiential. Which means, this experiment is to:
For the next week, pull out the red cloth and move it from side to side in front of you, while you are interacting with somebody. Learn the experience of it, what it feels like, while you are doing it.

Write a short article called 'The experiential difference'.

For example, there is an experiential difference between eating an underripe banana and an overripe banana.

In the same way, there is an experiential difference between holding a red cloth in front of you and on each side of you, in terms of where the other person's energy goes.

The energy goes into the red cloth on your side instead of into you.

After completing this experiment , please register Matrix Code REDCLOTH.03 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. Use the link of your article as proof.

This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.04

Your mother knows everything that she can say to put her energy in you and still kind of own you and be your mother as an identity.
Note: please see the mother graduation website.

As an adult, your mother stands behind you as an ancestor. When relating to her, you are relating to her as a Woman. As one of the Women in the world.

Next time you talk to your mother on the phone or you go visit her, the experiment is to use the red cloth so that her energy as a mother goes into the red cloth instead of in your space. Notice that you can still be in connection with her as a human being.

Take a photo with you and your mother and the red cloth as proof.

After completing the experiment, please register Matrix Code REDCLOTH.04 and the link to your photo on StartOver.xyz.

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.05

Make a list in your Beep! Book, titled 'Red Cloth Nuclear Test'. The list is the 13 people that you have procrastinated having conversations with for the past 10 years. You know who they are and you know they are going to give you a Nuclear Test.
The biggest, baddest, nastiest, ugliest, creepiest, semi-humans that you know. Arrange to have a red cloth test conversation with each of them.

Note: Do not risk injuring yourself. That would be breaking Rule number 1: Do not Hurt Yourself. Do also not Hurt Anyone Else or Get Arrested.

Ideally, these red cloth nuclear test conversations would happen in person. We know you could have a physical conversation with them, however if that is not 'feasible' - having a conversation on video call can suffice. The conversation is about the reason that you procrastinated the call. Why did you put this person on hold?
You are going to tell them why you put them on hold.
That is all. You don't need to get anything from them, or change anything.
You are not using the physical red cloth here, but the energetic red cloth. The point is to be able to hear them, be present and make connection so that they feel heard, and without their energy landing in you and you feeling struck.
You just admit what it was you were afraid of. Make a screenshot or selfie with your 13 nuclear tests. You could pin them to the back of your door like the character of Brad Pitt did in Fight Club.

After completing this experiment , please register Matrix Code REDCLOTH.05 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.

This Experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

MATRIX CODE REDCLOTH.06

This experiment is extremely useful if you as the spaceholder of a team, a project, a family, you sense that there is resentment, gossiping, backstabbing, unspoken strong opinions behind your back: you call for a meeting.

Bring red napkins or red cloths or a dyed red sheet. Give one to each member of the team. Have them practice the movement of holding it in front of you and to the sides.
Deliver the distinction and the procedure of how to use the red cloth.

In the big group, start the conversation. One person speaks at a time and speaks to a person they have unspoken business with. The target person uses the red cloth.
Note: be aware of Carom Shots. A Carom Shot is that one person is talking to another person, but who they are really talking to is someone else. This is when you use the side of the pool table to shoot into a pocket on the other side.
You need to explain this. Be aware that indirect energy blobs can come flying your way.
Extra Note: there is no need to have any resolution. This meeting is not about resolving anything.
It is about keeping the energy flowing rather than having it block.

People have to block communications because they don't know what to do with the energy.

With the red cloth, now you know that the energy goes into the red cloth. One by one, you ask them to be radically honest.

After completing this experiment , please register Matrix Code REDCLOTH.06 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.

This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.